Stephanie Bushell

Basic Data

Name

Stephanie Bushell

Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist Registered Member Level

Registered

Relationship Therapist Registered Member Level

Registered

Registration Number

4416

Town/City

London

County/Area

South East London

Location

Kelvington Road, London SE15 3EH, UK

Virtual Online Sessions

Yes

Country

England

Telephone

07521 070 522

Email

compassioncounselling@hushmail.com

Website

http://www.compassion-counselling.com

Therapists Profile

Psychosexual Therapy Qualifications

I hold a Pink Therapy endorsed Diploma in Sex & Relationship Therapy from the Contemporary Institute for Clinical Sexology. I also have a Post Graduate Diploma in Individual and Couple Psychodynamic Psychotherapy.

Biography

I have been a therapist for over 18 years, and I work with relationships of every kind, with every sexuality and gender variant. I can help you to think about your relationship whether you are currently in one, single and wanting to think about relationships, or wanting support as you bring a relationship to an end. I also hold a Diploma in Sex & Relationship Therapy from the Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology – a COSRT accredited and Pink Therapy endorsed course, and a specialist in depth Post Graduate Diploma in Couples Psychotherapy.
Having another, neutral person to witness and help you to think about your relationship can be invaluable in opening up communication and helping you to make sense of how you got to where you are today. It is often useful to understand how the templates of your own family of origin have shaped your expectations and patterns of relating without always being fully aware of it.
I have spent over 10 years in total undergoing therapy training, the vast majority of which was at a postgraduate level. This means that it involved the study of in-depth and complex theory, deep thinking and reflection. It also involved critically supervised practice and ongoing critique and feedback on my integrity and the personal qualities required to be a competent practicing therapist.

As well as working as a therapist and supervisor, I work as a lecturer, tutor and assessor on various counselling and psychotherapy courses in London. I am Co-Tutor on the Intimate Partner Therapy Certificate at Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology and I am a Live Assessor at the Minster Centre. I am a Visiting Tutor at Metanoia Institute and I train and supervise NHS therapists to deliver the Couples Counselling for Depression programme.

I also write (fairly infrequently) on mental health issues, such as on the Huffington Postand The Mighty. My most recent article was published in the Journal of Couple & Family Psychoanalysis.

Types of Therapy Used

I am primarily pluralist/integrative in approach, which means that I have been trained in a number of theories, and use the interventions that suit the people that come to see me. These approaches include: Psychodynamic therapy – this makes use of the client's past and their unconscious processes; Person Centred Therapy – this is based on the core conditions of empathy, congruence and unconditional positive regard for the client; CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy) – an approach that targets problem thinking and behaviours, which can be particularly useful in some aspects of sex therapy.

Issues Dealt With

Relationship issues, including but not limited to: Communication difficulties, arguments/conflict, infidelity, trust issues, exploration of open or polyamorous relationship styles, attachment issues etc. Psychosexual issues, including but not limited to: Discrepancies in desire, orgasm difficulties, difficulties with erections, sexual compulsions, painful sex, kink (from a non-pathologising perspective), problematic porn use, ejaculation problems, sexual shame and issues of conflict between sex and religion. I am also a general therapist so I work with depression, anxiety, trauma, OCD and most other issues. Contact me to find out more about what I can work with.

Type of Client

Couples and Multi-Partnered Relationships

Rates and Discounts

I charge £150 for couples and multi-partnered relationships. I do offer concessionary rates but these are currently all taken.

Supervisor

No