Basic Data
| Name | Lucy Thatcher |
| Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist Registered Member Level | Registered |
| Relationship Therapist Registered Member Level | Registered |
| Registration Number | 4574 |
| Town/City | London |
| County/Area | london |
| Location | Brixton, London, UK |
| Virtual Online Sessions | Yes |
| Country | England |
| Website |
Therapists Profile
| Languages Spoken | English |
| Psychosexual Therapy Qualifications | Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy |
| Biography |
Whatever you have been carrying, you don’t have to carry it alone anymore. You don’t have to have it all figured out before you get here; we can do it together at a pace that suits you. As a pluralistic therapist, I specialise in guiding clients towards greater confidence, connection, and empowerment in their sexual and relational experiences. My approach embraces neurodiversity and LGBTQIA+ identities, fostering a collaborative, warm environment that welcomes all relationship styles, including ethical non-monogamy and kink. I use a collaborative and integrative approach, which is flexible and responsive to client needs. I believe all clients are unique individuals who benefit from different approaches at different points in their journey. Therefore, I tailor therapy to you. I draw on techniques from various schools of thought, such as cognitive-behavioural, psychodynamic, and humanistic approaches, as well as others. Genuine change begins the moment you feel safe enough. I offer a judgment-free space where you can make sense of your experiences, moving towards healthier relationships. If you’re ready to see a more confident, fulfilling intimate life, I’m here to help you get there. |
| Types of Therapy Used | Pluralistic |
| Issues Dealt With | *Sexual Difficulties *Low or fluctuating sexual desire *Desire mismatches between partners *Difficulties with arousal *Erectile difficulties *Rapid ejaculation / delayed ejaculation *Difficulty reaching orgasm (anorgasmia) *Pain during sex (e.g., vaginismus, dyspareunia) *Sexual aversion or anxiety *Compulsive or problematic sexual behaviours *Impact of health conditions, medication, or menopause on sexual functioning *Relationship and Intimacy Challenges *Communication difficulties *Conflict cycles or ruptures in connection *Emotional disconnection or feeling "like housemates" *Navigating differing needs, expectations, or values *Rebuilding trust after betrayal or ruptures *Navigating life transitions (e.g., parenthood, illness, grief, relocation) *Differences in attachment styles *Intimacy blocks or fear of closeness *Power imbalances or unhealthy relational patterns *Identity, Diversity & Self-Exploration *Sexual identity, orientation, or expression *Gender identity and exploration *Neurodiversity and intimacy/sexual wellbeing *Sensory needs and sexual experience *Kink, BDSM, and sexual interests *Ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and relationship structure questions *Cultural, religious, and family-related sexual shame *Trauma & Emotional Wellbeing *Sexual trauma, assault, or coercion *Childhood experiences affecting adult sexuality *Body image concerns and self-esteem *Shame, guilt, or fear around sex *Anxiety, depression, or stress impacting sexual and relational wellbeing *Emotional regulation challenges *Loss of sexual self-confidence *Life Circumstances & Practical Concerns *Impact of infertility, miscarriage, or reproductive health issues *Adjusting to chronic illness or disability *Navigating aging and sexual changes *Exploring dating after long-term relationships *Supporting sexual wellbeing post-surgery or injury |
| Type of Client | I would be happy and confident to work with most clients who are ready to do the work. |
| Rates and Discounts | In person: Individual £85, Block of 6 £490. Couple session £150, Block of 6 £860. Online: Individual session £70, Block of 6 £400. Couples £130, Block of 6 £ 750. For additional partners £50 per session. Some concessions can be made for those in receipt of benefits, Students and NHS workers. |
| Supervisor | No |