Jem Stopes

Basic Data

Name

Jem Stopes
Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist Registered Member Level

Registered
Relationship Therapist Registered Member Level

Registered
Registration Number

4367
Town/City

Bristol
County/Area

Bristol
Location

Bristol BS2, UK
Location 2

London E8, UK
Location 3

Manchester, UK
Virtual Online Sessions

Yes
Country

England
Telephone

07708797905
Email

jemstopes@gmail.com
Website

http://www.jemstopes.co

Therapists Profile

Psychosexual Therapy Qualifications

Foundation in Holistic and Integrative Counselling – the Bath Centre of Psychotherapy and Counselling (2020 – 2021)

Diploma in Clinical Sexology (Sex and Relationship Therapy) – Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology (2021 – 2024)
Biography
  • *Couples Therapist with Evening Availability*
  • Hi, I’m Jem!
  • I specialise in helping couples get back from crisis-point. I’m ready to get to grips with your communication and intimacy blocks and to help you get back to the ease, connection, and intimacy that you had before. My previous career was in conflict mediation, so I’m well-equipped to support even the toughest situations.
  • As a qualified sex therapist I have thorough training around sexual difficulties like desire discrepancy, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, vaginismus etc. I believe these issues are best resolved withing the relationship, and can support couples to overcome these problems together.
  • Having happy relationships and a healthy sex life is so important, but it can be so hard to talk openly about, even in therapy. I bring a warm and informal atmosphere for us to explore in. Book a free 30‑minute discovery call to see if we’re a good fit.
  • I take a pluralist approach which means I adapt the way I work to meet the client in front of me. My influences include person-centred counselling, CBT, mindfulness/Buddhist teachings, parts work, and life coaching.
  • I have training and lived experience with kink/BDSM, Consensual Non-Monogamy, Trans/Non-Binary Identities and Sex Positive Culture.
Types of Therapy Used

Person-centred, CBT, Mindfulness, Parts Work, Gottman approach
Issues Dealt With

Relationship difficulties (desire discrepancy, communication challenges, conflict). Sexual function problems within couples (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, vaginismus, orgasm problems).
Type of Client

Couples including ENM/Polyamorous, Kinky, Queer
Rates and Discounts

50 minutes for £95. 75 minutes for £120. Low-income from £50 per session, please get in touch if this is you.
Supervisor

No