Ella Tressler

Basic Data

Name

Ella Tressler

Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist Registered Member Level

Registered

Relationship Therapist Registered Member Level

Registered

Registration Number

4364

Town/City

Online

County/Area

Oxfordshire

Location

Oxfordshire, UK

Location 2

London, UK

Virtual Online Sessions

Yes

Country

England

Email

contact@speakeasytherapy.org.uk

Website

https://www.speakeasysextherapy.co.uk/

Therapists Profile

Psychosexual Therapy Qualifications

Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy

Foundation in Pyschotherapy and Counselling

Biography

My therapeutic style is warm, collaborative, and rooted in respect for your individuality. I work integratively, meaning I draw from multiple approaches -including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and psychodynamic therapy – to tailor our sessions to your unique goals, personality, and pace.

Some clients come to therapy to address specific issues, like pain during sex, low desire, or difficulties with arousal. Others are navigating identity questions, rebuilding trust in a relationship, or seeking to better understand themselves and their patterns. Whatever brings you here, my role is to support you in moving forward in a way that feels empowering and meaningful.

 

Professional Background & Experience

Alongside my private practice, I currently work with Brook, the UK’s leading sexual health and wellbeing charity for young people. In this role, I support students through healthy relationships and sex education workshops, as well as one-to-one sessions focused on building confidence, safety, and self-awareness. This work continually deepens my understanding of how early experiences shape our relationships with ourselves and others, and reinforces my belief in the power of open, age-appropriate conversations about sex and relationships at every stage of life.

I hold a Postgraduate Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy and I am a Registered Member of the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). My training is accredited and meets the professional standards for working with individuals and couples on a wide range of sexual and relational concerns.

I also engage in ongoing professional development to ensure my practice is inclusive, trauma-informed, and affirming of all sexual orientations, gender identities, and relationship styles.

 

Therapy with me is never about “fixing” you – it’s about understanding your story, making sense of your experience, and helping you create a more connected, fulfilling relationship with yourself and others.

 

If you’re curious about working together, I’d love to hear from you.

Types of Therapy Used

Integrative

Issues Dealt With

I welcome adults of all genders, sexualities, and backgrounds. I have experience working with individuals and couples around: Sexual pain and dysfunction (e.g., vaginismus, erectile difficulties, anorgasmia) Low desire or desire discrepancies Shame, trauma, and body image concerns Gender identity and sexual orientation Communication challenges and emotional disconnect in relationships Non-monogamy, kink, and alternative relationship structures

Type of Client

Individuals and People in Relationships

Rates and Discounts

Online sessions start from £75 for Individuals and £95 for Couples

Supervisor

No