Diane Hassall

For those of us who have felt judged, marginalised or discriminated against because we’re kinky or non-monogamous, it’s really important to feel seen, heard and safe in therapy. Unfortunately though, many therapists aren’t comfortable or confident talking kink, BDSM, polyamory and non-monogamy. I am. You might be dabbling in kinky play and want to explore more, or live a 24/7 BDSM lifestyle and are starting to find it challenging. Perhaps you’re confused or worried about your fantasies and fetishes? Or you might just be a kinkster looking for help with something else entirely. Whatever brings you to therapy, you will want to work with a therapist who understands and accepts all of you. It’s just the same with non-monogamy and polyamory. I can support you if you’re new to non-monogamy and want to take time to think and talk things through before you open your relationship. If you’re already non-monogamous or polyamorous, I can guide you through any challenges you might face, like poly-saturation, jealousy, envy or fear, or a breakdown in communication. I'm highly experienced in supporting partners creating or renegotiating relationship agreements. And I will work with you to build the communication skills that are essential in non-monogamous relationships; even more so than in monogamous relationships.