Camilla Di Florio

I’m drawn to where love and desire meet, and to what happens when they pull in different directions. I work with couples and individuals, often through an attachment lens (EFCT), and I’m affirming of LGBTQIA+, trans and non-binary clients and all relationship structures, including ENM, polyamory and kink.

Many of the difficulties people bring, such as mismatched desire, sex that’s become a source of tension, or feeling close but no longer turned on, come back to how we connect and what feels safe. With couples, I use Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy to help partners understand the patterns that pull them apart and find their way back to each other, emotionally and sexually.

With individuals, and alongside couples work, I draw on mindfulness, Compassion Focused Therapy, ACT and CBT. Mindfulness is central to my psychosexual work: it helps shift attention away from performance and worry and back into the body, sensation and pleasure. It also eases the anxiety, shame and self-criticism that often sit underneath sexual struggles. The work is tailored to you. Sometimes that means exploring feelings and history, sometimes practical tools and exercises.

I’m warm, down-to-earth and genuinely hard to faze, so there’s no need to filter yourself. Bring whatever you’ve got!